{"id":11928,"date":"2019-05-24T16:26:41","date_gmt":"2019-05-24T13:26:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/?p=11928"},"modified":"2019-07-02T11:09:29","modified_gmt":"2019-07-02T08:09:29","slug":"how-do-i-tell-my-fiance-i-dont-want-his-daughter-at-our-wedding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/?p=11928","title":{"rendered":"How do I tell my fianc\u00e9 I don\u2019t want his daughter at our wedding?"},"content":{"rendered":"

By Maria Immaculate Owechi <\/strong><\/p>\n

This week on Monday, an unnamed bride-to-be went to her Facebook page and revealed how she is finding all manner of ways to prevent her fianc\u00e9\u2019s three year old daughter from being present at her wedding reception.<\/p>\n

The lady went ahead and explained her reasons for not wanting her step daughter to ruin her wedding plans.<\/p>\n

She posted, \u201cHow do I tell my fianc\u00e9 I don\u2019t want his daughter at our wedding?<\/p>\n

\u201cI put \u2018no kids\u2019 on the invites so I thought he\u2019d get the point, but he keeps mentioning her being there.\u201d She added, \u201cI don\u2019t want her there because she\u2019s needy asf and makes everything about her AND I said no f***ing kids!\u201d\u201d<\/p>\n

All hell broke loose when the bride-to-be insulted the innocent girl which did not sit well with online users who read her post.<\/p>\n

She said, \u201cI\u2019m marrying him not his crotch goblin. That\u2019s his mistake, not mine.\u201d<\/p>\n

This post was immediately shared to a Facebook shamming group and Reddit where the angry participants in the group seriously roosted her over fire for that insensitive comment.<\/p>\n

The Nigerian Magazine blog posted some of the comments with the majority not siding at all with her with one branding the post as, “absolutely abhorrent”.<\/p>\n

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One responded saying, \u201cJesus Christ lady, of course she makes everything about her, she\u2019s THREE F***ING YEARS OLD. That\u2019s how it works!!\u201d<\/p>\n

With another asking,\u201d Why marry someone with kids if you don\u2019t like kids?\u201d<\/p>\n

Another added,\u201d “If you don’t want to be in a partner\u2019s kid’s life, don’t be with that person at all!”<\/p>\n

“When I was single I had a strict no dating parent\u2019s policy for this reason.”<\/p>\n

Others saw this as a downfall to the marriage with one stating,\u201d This marriage (if it happens) is going to end quickly or last way too long and be horrible the entire time.\u201d<\/p>\n

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