{"id":16316,"date":"2020-12-30T16:47:13","date_gmt":"2020-12-30T13:47:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/?p=16316"},"modified":"2020-12-30T16:49:33","modified_gmt":"2020-12-30T13:49:33","slug":"before-you-dm-me-i-am-a-christian-and-i-believe-in-waiting-till-marriage-for-sexual-relations-lady-informs-intending-suitor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/?p=16316","title":{"rendered":"\u201cBefore you DM me, I am a Christian and I believe in waiting till marriage \u201d \u2013 Lady informs intending suitors"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A Nigerian lady, Adesekonge-Ire has informed intending suitors that she does not believe in sex before marriage.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBefore you DM me, I\u2018m a Christian and I believe in waiting till marriage for sexual relations. tnx\u201d said Konge, who is proudly a Feminist.<\/p>\n<p>Her tweet elicited comments from the men who said if she has to wait\u00a0till marriage to have sex then she should also not ask for money before marriage.<\/p>\n<p>Others questioned her feminist stance as according to them, a Christian shouldn\u2019t be a Feminist.<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-16318\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/5fe6d79c9afc6.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"476\" height=\"291\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/5fe6d79c9afc6.png 476w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/5fe6d79c9afc6-300x183.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 476px) 100vw, 476px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Reacting to the comments, Konge urged women to try and be financially independent as apparently from the responses, men only give money to women in exchange for sex.<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-16320\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/5fe6d7b7cb3a7.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"479\" height=\"590\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/5fe6d7b7cb3a7.png 479w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/5fe6d7b7cb3a7-244x300.png 244w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 479px) 100vw, 479px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe responses to that tweet proves that men only give money to women because they want sex in return. Women, wake up! Make your money so these men would know to have something better to offer in a relationship asides money. You are not a sex worker, stop giving sex for money.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-16319\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/5fe6d7d199dd1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"470\" height=\"588\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/5fe6d7d199dd1.png 470w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/5fe6d7d199dd1-240x300.png 240w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 470px) 100vw, 470px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-16323\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/5fe6d80f21497.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"473\" height=\"653\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/5fe6d80f21497.png 473w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/5fe6d80f21497-217x300.png 217w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 473px) 100vw, 473px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A Nigerian lady, Adesekonge-Ire has informed intending suitors that she does not believe in sex before marriage. \u201cBefore you DM me, I\u2018m a Christian and I believe in waiting till marriage for sexual relations. tnx\u201d said Konge, who is proudly a Feminist. Her tweet elicited comments from the men who said if she has to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":16317,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"source_name":"","source_url":"","via_name":"","via_url":"","override_template":"0","override":[{"template":"1","single_blog_custom":"","parallax":"1","fullscreen":"1","layout":"right-sidebar","sidebar":"default-sidebar","second_sidebar":"default-sidebar","sticky_sidebar":"1","share_position":"top","share_float_style":"share-monocrhome","show_share_counter":"1","show_view_counter":"1","show_featured":"1","show_post_meta":"1","show_post_author":"1","show_post_author_image":"1","show_post_date":"1","post_date_format":"default","post_date_format_custom":"Y\/m\/d","show_post_category":"1","show_post_reading_time":"0","post_reading_time_wpm":"300","show_zoom_button":"0","zoom_button_out_step":"2","zoom_button_in_step":"3","show_post_tag":"1","show_prev_next_post":"1","show_popup_post":"1","number_popup_post":"1","show_author_box":"0","show_post_related":"0","show_inline_post_related":"0"}],"override_image_size":"0","image_override":[{"single_post_thumbnail_size":"crop-500","single_post_gallery_size":"crop-500"}],"trending_post":"0","trending_post_position":"meta","trending_post_label":"Trending","sponsored_post":"0","sponsored_post_label":"Sponsored by","sponsored_post_name":"","sponsored_post_url":"","sponsored_post_logo_enable":"0","sponsored_post_logo":"","sponsored_post_desc":""},"jnews_primary_category":{"id":""},"footnotes":""},"categories":[524],"tags":[],"ppma_author":[1785],"class_list":["post-16316","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-real-stories"],"authors":[{"term_id":1785,"user_id":3,"is_guest":0,"slug":"enantambi","display_name":"Esther Nantambi","avatar_url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b1fa0f938f32d805446562e1bb7c32da6a6c7e51bd320fd89d4ba0819146b78d?s=96&d=mm&r=g","author_category":"","first_name":"Esther","last_name":"Nantambi","user_url":"","job_title":"","description":""}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16316","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16316"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16316\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16325,"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16316\/revisions\/16325"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/16317"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16316"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16316"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16316"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fppma_author&post=16316"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}