{"id":21864,"date":"2022-07-15T13:54:58","date_gmt":"2022-07-15T10:54:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/?p=21864"},"modified":"2022-07-15T13:55:11","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T10:55:11","slug":"my-husband-is-a-serial-cheat-will-he-stop","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/?p=21864","title":{"rendered":"My husband is a serial cheat. Will he stop?"},"content":{"rendered":"

I have on several occasions caught my husband reading text messages from other women. Because I became suspicious, I went through his phone and realised he had gone as far as having sex with several of these women. When I confronted him, he confessed and asked for my forgiveness. He changed for a while but he recently started dating another woman. I have not confronted him about it and I do not know how to proceed. Am I allowing him to get away with disrespecting me? Please advise.<\/p>\n

Becky.<\/p>\n

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Dear Anonymous,<\/p>\n

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Being cheated on is not an easy thing to handle. Learning how to deal with a cheater can help you regain control of your life and help you decide how you want to proceed.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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While hurting your husband by let us\u00a0 say cutting his clothes into pieces may seem like a cathartic reaction, this is not going to help you move on, nor will it make you feel any better in the long run.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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The adverse emotional and mental side effects of being cheated on can stay with you for a lifetime. Being cheated on stirs up insecurities, low self-esteem, distrust, inability to open up, give you feelings of worthlessness, and makes you question your qualities and physical appearance.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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  1. Remember that the reason cheaters decide to take the unfaithful way and indulge in affairs may have very little, if nothing, to do with you. Cheating in relationships is a selfish act in which a person is thinking solely of themselves. However, many still find understanding the \u2018why\u2019 as an essential part of the grieving process. Click to read more\u2026<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/div>\n

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