{"id":22586,"date":"2022-10-03T16:56:03","date_gmt":"2022-10-03T13:56:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/?p=22586"},"modified":"2022-10-03T17:59:06","modified_gmt":"2022-10-03T14:59:06","slug":"our-love-started-with-dislike","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/?p=22586","title":{"rendered":"Our love started with dislike"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Love story: Mark Ernest Gulume met Daniella Agadi six years ago at university. What started as a good friendship blossomed into love and marriage, writes Esther Tusiime Byoona.<\/p>\n<p>Mark Ernest Gulume met Daniella Agadi in 2016 in their first year at Uganda Christian University, Mukono. The two were pursuing different courses but they shared some course units. In their first year, second semester they got close.<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-22592\" src=\"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1912.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"599\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1912.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1912-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1912-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1912-750x499.jpg 750w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe used to have late night discussions in the dining hall and Daniella particularly wanted to pass certain course units badly that semester. Indeed she achieved her goal,\u201d Ernest says.<br \/>\nDaniella says, when they met it was hatred at first sight for her. She did not like him at all and did not like his hair.<br \/>\n\u201cI did not like that he was a mutual friend to one of my friends. Whenever Ernest greeted us, my friends replied but, I ignored him by pretending to stay on my phone. I did not want anything to do with him. I found him nagging,\u201d Daniella recalls.<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-22593\" src=\"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/IMG_0309.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/IMG_0309.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/IMG_0309-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/IMG_0309-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/IMG_0309-750x500.jpg 750w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>With time, Daniella started by liking his hair, realised that she did not want to spend a day without talking to Ernest.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI felt like something was missing if I did not talk to him; that was even before we started dating,\u201dshe explains.<br \/>\nThey started dating on February 14, 2017. Ernest says Daniella is intelligent, progressive and motivating.<br \/>\n\u201cWhenever we were in the dining hall, discussing she would give me invaluable advice,\u201d he recalls, adding that Daniella was not materialistic and appreciated the little they shared.<br \/>\n\u201cShe realised I liked cake and bought me a lot of cake,\u201d he says.<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-22590\" src=\"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1592-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"599\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1592-1.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1592-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1592-1-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1592-1-750x499.jpg 750w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Functions<\/strong><br \/>\nThey did not have a formal proposal but Ernest proposed at the introduction ceremony on August 27. He says Daniella did not know what to say at the proposal but was told what to say.<br \/>\nHe remarks that Daniella had met most of his family members, but he had not met her family members so on December 27, 2020, he paid a visit to her aunt\u2019s home and the kukyala took place on January 9.<br \/>\nThe couple chose to have the introduction and wedding ceremonies with one week in between. Then, the wedding was on September 3.<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-22594\" src=\"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1567.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"599\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1567.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1567-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1567-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1567-750x499.jpg 750w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Services<\/strong><br \/>\nAsked how they looked for service providers, Daniella says they settled for the reliable ones. For her wedding gown and changing dress, she went to her friend\u2019s bridal shop because they were flexible. Meanwhile for her make-up, her first choice was disappointed and she got a more reliable one.<br \/>\nErnest says his friend tailored the suits for the entourage and did a good job.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-22595\" src=\"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1601.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"599\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1601.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1601-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1601-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1601-750x499.jpg 750w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><br \/>\n\u201cI came up with the design, bought the material and I paid for labour,\u201d he recounts.<br \/>\nHe says their wedding committee was organised and did an amazing job. Ernest explains that he was not in the country most of the time but the wedding committee did most of the things and he followed up online.<br \/>\nHe returned to the country two weeks to the introduction and he found much of what was needed already sorted out.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe organising committee did their best, and our parents helped us a lot,\u201d he recalls.<br \/>\nDespite the support, the preparations were intensive.<br \/>\n\u201cRemember, there is a picture of what you want versus what people are organising. You ought to crosscheck to match your needs,\u201d Ernest notes.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Honeymoon<\/strong><br \/>\nAfter the wedding, the Gulumes rested at a hotel in Jinja where a family member had booked them. Asked why they postponed their honeymoon, Ernest says they could not afford their dream honeymoon, but they are planning it for later.<br \/>\nAnd from the whole preparations to the function, Ernest says they learnt to do life together as a married couple and marriage is beyond finger rings and respect for one other is paramount.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Advice<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-22596\" src=\"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1548.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"599\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1548.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1548-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1548-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_1548-750x499.jpg 750w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/strong><br \/>\nDaniella advises those intending to wed to put God first while Ernest says one should work within their means.<br \/>\n\u201cLower your expectations, especially while preparing for your wedding, even friends will disappoint you,\u201d he says adding that a couple should know that there is life after the wedding.<br \/>\n\u201cWork with all the money you have at hand and, if someone pledges Shs1m, do not count on it, act like it is not there until you get it,\u201d Daniella adds.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tidbits<\/strong><br \/>\nDate: September 3, 2022<br \/>\nGroom: Mark Ernest Gulume<br \/>\nBride: Daniella Agadi<\/p>\n<p>Church: Christ Cathedral Bugembe, Jinja<\/p>\n<p>Officiant: Rt Reverend Paul Samson Naimanhe<\/p>\n<p>Reception: Civil Service College<br \/>\nCake: God\u2019s Will Bakery<br \/>\nNails: Posh Nails Salon<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Love story: Mark Ernest Gulume met Daniella Agadi six years ago at university. What started as a good friendship blossomed into love and marriage, writes Esther Tusiime Byoona. Mark Ernest Gulume met Daniella Agadi in 2016 in their first year at Uganda Christian University, Mukono. 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