{"id":23795,"date":"2023-02-28T20:29:12","date_gmt":"2023-02-28T17:29:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/?p=23795"},"modified":"2023-05-05T18:12:56","modified_gmt":"2023-05-05T15:12:56","slug":"the-tusiimes-had-counselling-for-one-week","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/?p=23795","title":{"rendered":"She had all the attributes I love, but I had to be patient"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>By Rajab Mukombozi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ivan Tusiime, a media personality and Susan Kyomugisha, a businesswoman met in 2013 at Susan\u2019s workplace. Since then they developed a friendship and exchanged their wedding vows on December 18, 2022.<\/p>\n<div class=\"paragraph-wrapper\">\n<p>But they had to go for premarital counselling for a week at Nyamitanga Cathedral in Mbarara City.<br \/>\n\u201cWe were best friends for a long time, we knew almost everything about each other, but we knew we were joining another lifetime journey and we thought premarital counselling would give us a strong foundation for this new life,\u201d says Ivan.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"paragraph-wrapper\">\n<p>During premarital counselling, Ivan explains they learnt many things such as improving relationships, showing each other affection but adds that what stood out was listening to each other (communication skills).<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<section class=\"teasers-row related-in-content\">\n<div class=\"grid-container\">\n<div class=\"col-1-1 medium-col-1-1 large-col-1-1\">\n<div class=\"col-1-1\">\n<div class=\"paragraph-wrapper\">\n<p><strong>How they\u00a0met<\/strong><br \/>\nThe two met at Susan\u2019s workplace in Kakoba where she used to sell clothes. Ivan had gone to buy clothes.<br \/>\n\u201cI went to buy clothes from Susan\u2019s shop in Mbarara City. She was polite, humble and welcoming. I became a regular customer and eventually, we became friends,\u201d narrates Ivan.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"paragraph-wrapper\">\n<p>After sometime, some other attributes such as beauty became irresistible but also as friendship and started sharing I realised Susan was also hard working.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"paragraph-wrapper\">\n<p>\u201cI realised she had most of the attributes of my ideal wife but I had to be patient. I had always feared to be let down in marriage or let someone\u2019s daughter down. That is why I wanted us to be friends first so as to understand each other,\u201d adds Ivan.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"paragraph-wrapper\">\n<p><strong>Irresistible<\/strong><br \/>\nFor Susan, Ivan had so much charm and seriousness with life.<br \/>\n\u201cI found Ivan very caring, listening and loving. The time we spent together he was not in a rush for a relationship. We would go for dinners, outings and he escorts me home without any strings attached,\u201d explains Susan. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.monitor.co.ug\/uganda\/lifestyle\/heart-to-heart\/the-tusiimes-had-counselling-for-one-week-4139522\">Click to read more&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Rajab Mukombozi Ivan Tusiime, a media personality and Susan Kyomugisha, a businesswoman met in 2013 at Susan\u2019s workplace. Since then they developed a friendship and exchanged their wedding vows on December 18, 2022. But they had to go for premarital counselling for a week at Nyamitanga Cathedral in Mbarara City. \u201cWe were best friends [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":23796,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"source_name":"","source_url":"","via_name":"","via_url":"","override_template":"0","override":[{"template":"1","single_blog_custom":"","parallax":"1","fullscreen":"1","layout":"right-sidebar","sidebar":"default-sidebar","second_sidebar":"default-sidebar","sticky_sidebar":"1","share_position":"top","share_float_style":"share-monocrhome","show_share_counter":"1","show_view_counter":"1","show_featured":"1","show_post_meta":"1","show_post_author":"1","show_post_author_image":"1","show_post_date":"1","post_date_format":"default","post_date_format_custom":"Y\/m\/d","show_post_category":"1","show_post_reading_time":"0","post_reading_time_wpm":"300","show_zoom_button":"0","zoom_button_out_step":"2","zoom_button_in_step":"3","show_post_tag":"1","show_prev_next_post":"1","show_popup_post":"1","number_popup_post":"1","show_author_box":"0","show_post_related":"1","show_inline_post_related":"0"}],"override_image_size":"0","image_override":[{"single_post_thumbnail_size":"crop-500","single_post_gallery_size":"crop-500"}],"trending_post":"0","trending_post_position":"meta","trending_post_label":"Trending","sponsored_post":"0","sponsored_post_label":"Sponsored by","sponsored_post_name":"","sponsored_post_url":"","sponsored_post_logo_enable":"0","sponsored_post_logo":"","sponsored_post_desc":"","disable_ad":"0"},"jnews_primary_category":{"id":"","hide":""},"footnotes":""},"categories":[524],"tags":[],"ppma_author":[1784],"class_list":["post-23795","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-real-stories"],"authors":[{"term_id":1784,"user_id":1,"is_guest":0,"slug":"weddingadmin","display_name":"weddingadmin","avatar_url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/cd3996c46efafdc40969010bfd78c8e4dda9d99318e7dd6403983ea0dadbcfce?s=96&d=mm&r=g","author_category":"","first_name":"","last_name":"","user_url":"","job_title":"","description":""}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23795","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=23795"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23795\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23993,"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23795\/revisions\/23993"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/23796"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=23795"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=23795"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=23795"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mywedding.co.ug\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fppma_author&post=23795"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}