By Rashim Nabanja
Twitter has been buzzing with all sorts of comments after a tweet suggesting that girls that sleep around (runs girls) tend to get married faster than the strong Christian church girls.
A lady, who goes by the user name, Deola Adereti, took to her twitter saying during her university, all her classmates that were sleeping around are now married to rich responsible men and yet ‘she’, the strong Christian who spent most of her time in fellowship is still asking God when she will meet Mr. right.
Her tweet read,
“All my colleagues in the University that were busy distributing p*ssy around are now married to rich responsible men, living better life.
But we that were dying in fellowship then are still doing “God when?” on every thread.
Hmmm….It is well.”
In another tweet, she wrote; ”I did everything I was asked to oo. Sometimes I will think I’m being punished for something I don’t know. E get this babe that was doing this runs lojumejeji back then, gIrl got married to one local gov’t chairman. How she managed to find the guy still baffles me.”
Some Twitter users agreed with her tweets saying they have also noticed this in their own lives.
“Tbh. I thought I was the only one that noticed it. All the runs girls back then in sch have wealthy husbands and beautiful kids now. But I still dey here despite being a good girl.”
Another also wrote,
“People always try to console themselves with bad reviews about marriages because they don’t have one for themselves. I realized this too cos some of the babes we looked at as bad Bchss are in London or The Us with the husbands. Let’s not talk of fellowship sisters today.”
However, others said the ‘play girls’ may have gotten married first, but it isn’t guaranteed that they are in happy and healthy marriages.
One of these comments read,
“Their marriage will not be rosy, is just stale already, whose marriage is perfect? Anyway, the agenda is to make themselves feel better,”
To this, the girl who tweeted replied, “All of you coming with “their marriage might not be rosy” agenda, go and sit down. Most of them actually have happy marriages. I know of 4 like that. That agenda is fallacious.”
Another user tried comforting her saying ‘’ …u don’t have to be…all dat glitters is not gold…consider the end afterwards. Count your blessings, go out, mix with good friends n probably you will meet the one meant for you.
Emma Odet commented ‘’ So, are you now deliberating to be one since that is what pays most?
As per your question, maybe because I noticed that trend too but a good girl will always make a better home.
Also, there is one thing you never noticed from your observations.
Even though it may seem runs girls get the better men, the ex-runs girls make the worse family setting compared to the homely groomed ones.
Check the women engaged in adultery or infidelity in marriages, paternity fraudsters, the woman that has high tendency of bringing STI home to hubby, the wives that can endure a hubby who works offshore and travels to work for 2 months or more just to feed the family yet the wives can’t stay a week without contacting an Ex that is a sex machine, all in all – check the women with high divorce rate and you will notice it is all these runs girls.
They can hardly withstand family pressures or turbulence like a job loss of hubby, businesses collapse of hubby, sickness for some months of hubby or been locked in prison for some months without the woman quickly packing out. To them, life must be rosy and sweet else marriage becomes boring.
In other words, you can’t count on them when it matters.’’
According to Abel Chwuku, some “good” girls often shy away from men and don’t like to interact much. This makes them lose the men to their “bad” counterparts who know how to interact and attract the men to themselves.
While many explain why anyone is better off with a well-groomed church girl, do you think this lady’s philosophy that bad girls marry earlier really applies to what is going on in society today? If so, why do you this is the case?