By Maria Immaculate Owechi
A troubled maid of honor who is set to stand beside her friend on her wedding day in less than a week has considered backing out because the best man is an Ex fiancé with whom she has recently had a bitter split.
According to an American website, Fox News, the woman decided to share her troubles on Reddit under the name Liotheleon that gathered 1,800 comments with the majority saying they wouldn’t blame her if she backed out at the last minute.
Liotheleon explained that the gentleman she is expected to walk besides is a recent ex-fiance who broke her heart by admitting that he cheated on her with multiple prostitutes.
According to the website she posted about the former lover whom she was supposed to marry in August, “I’ve never hated a human being as much as I hate him. I can’t be in the same room with him let alone walk arm in arm with him.”
Liotheleon continues that the bubble was busted when her ex-boyfriend left his phone at her house while he was away for his job with the Air Force and a “call girl” named Panama started texting him in the middle of the night saying she’s reaching out to old clients because she’s back in the game.
After a hinted confrontation with her man who admitted he had seen 2 separate call girls for about a year, sometimes at the same time.
His explanation was that he suffered from sex addiction while begging for her forgiveness.
May 11th, is just a throw away and the dilemma is that her best friend and the groom don’t want to change to a new best man.
She says the bride is instead begging her to bear with the situation and stick to the arrangement for her sake promising to make it up to her.
This made some people to comment that the couple is being insensitive to the matron’s plight.
One commented saying,” “The couple is putting you in this position by not demoting the ex or kicking him out of the wedding party. Why is it you, the wronged party, who has to sacrifice?”
Most of the other responses were in support of her saying her reason is valid.
“That’s pretty brutal. It’s like going to a baby shower a few days after a miscarriage,” one wrote.
“That’s a really fresh wound, I wouldn’t go either,” another added.
Then very few just told her to put on a tough skin and pretend everything is fine before her ex-lover.
Like one who commented,” “Don’t let this a—h— take you away from having a great time at your best friend’s wedding,” one person wrote. “Smile, laugh, look your hottest even if it kills you inside… Happiness is the best revenge.”
But at the end of the day the final decision rested on the shoulders of the aggrieved matron.
Liotheleon posted accepting to honor her best friend’s wish by saying, “[The bride] has offered me the chance to allow me and ex-fiancé to walk in with other people or even separately, but I’m not going to do that,” she posted. “First of all because I think it will look weird. And secondly. I foresee getting a sick [sense] of satisfaction of touching him ONE LAST TIME — FOREVER and have him know that that spark he feels… could have been forever come August but he f—ed it up.”
