By Sylvia Mwesigye
For most people in on going relationships, there are those things that grate at the relationship and if not addressed, end up damaging it. Although women tend to be more tolerant, men have less patience and instead of communicating with their partners to resolve issues, they withdraw and sometimes, end the relationship. So, what are those things your sweetheart wishes they could change about you?
Pettiness
We have all met those uniquely gifted women that can make a storm in a tea cup. A lost sock or broken glass will be turned into a major catastrophe. A missed call or a few minutes’ delays for a cousin’s wedding will make her unravel. They call them drama queens and other less flattering names, men do not enjoy seeing their partner having a meltdown because they cannot find their favourite pair of earrings or Nancy at the office failed to complement them on their new hairdo. Learn to relax and take things in your stride.
Neglect of one’s appearance
Although many men complain to their friends about how much time and money women spend on their hair and clothing, deep down, they appreciate the effort. There is a tendency for women to relax once they are in settled relationships, often to the chagrin of their partners. Remember how much he used to complement your outfits, your hair and even your scents? They do miss that. According to Helen Andelin, the author of Fascinating Womanhood, men view women as goddesses and expect them to always look flawless. If you have a small budget to work with, just buy good quality toiletries so you are able to groom yourself from home. Also, invest in those accessories that will elevate your outfits without much effort. Click to read more…
