We both work and are doing our best to develop ourselves by establishing a business and building a home. However, whenever we talk about anything we plan to do or have a disagreement, my wife runs and tells her family everything
My wife and I have been together for a while and we have one child. We both work and are doing our best to develop ourselves by establishing a business and building a home. However, whenever we talk about anything we plan to do or have a disagreement, my wife runs and tells her family everything. All of a sudden, I start getting phone calls and messages from her family, advising us on what we should do instead. I have told her severally to keep certain conversations private but she does not listen. Should I stop talking to her and do everything by myself?
This sounds stressful since no one wants to feel betrayed by the people they expect to protect them. Marriage is special and it comes with all the good things that are embedded in a union of two consenting adults. However, this relationships is also bound to face difficulties along the way.
One of the things that make a marriage special is a couple being vulnerable with each other. This is one of the best ways of developing a close and fulfilling relationship. It entails being more open with your partner and allowing yourself to be who you truly are. It can involve discussing feelings at a deeper level and being open with each other without the fear of being judged.
It is often a big temptation for people to want to share everything about their relationship with their parents and friends. This usually happens when the relationship is facing some challenges although even out of excitement, a partner might be tempted to share more than they should with other people. Parents lend a sympathetic ear and one goes away feeling much better. Click ro read more…