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The significance of gifts exchanged during kwanjula

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BY SHAMIM J. NAKAWOOYA

Although different tribes across the country have different conditions and traditions when it comes to giving gifts during marriage ceremonies, many of them see both the bride and groom’s sides offering gifts to the in-laws.

An introduction ceremony commonly known as kwanjula in Buganda (but which term is generally used across the country) basically means to “introduce”. It is the day the bride-to-be introduces the would-be husband.

The bride’s side
Many parents prepare their daughter with the help of the father’s sister, for marriage and the bride usually expects to receive gifts from her parents or family as well as from her in-laws to be.

In Buganda and Ankole, parents usually prepare different gifts to help their daughter settle in her marriage comfortably. The gifts are also a sign of care and affection towards the bride-to-be.

The bride’s parents may give her gifts such as money, or a plot of land to act as initial capital to help her start a new life. It is also a way of showing their son-in-law that they are a caring and responsible family.

Grooms can also take different pieces of furniture like beds for their in-laws. Photo by Shamim J. Nakawooya

The bride’s parents also usually send gifts to the groom’s parents as a way of thanking their fellow elders for allowing their son to marry from their family. Mr Fred Kibudde, a kwanjula MC, narrates that gifts which the girl receives from the parents are vital in supporting, maintaining and sustaining love between the couple. “They boost or strengthen the relationship and connection between two families, the bride’s and groom’s families,” he adds.

According to John Baptist Kalema, a teacher of language and linguistics, in the western or Ankole region, during the kuhingira which is the giveaway ceremony, the bride normally receives beddings as gifts in order to get prepared for marital roles.

In the western part of the country culture, many gifts are given to the bride by parents, relatives and friends during the kuhingira but among the important gifts are what is referred to as Omugamba which comprises milk pots, a milk gourd and watering tins among other things. All these symbolise prosperity, food security and maintaining cattle as a cultural norm.

Nowadays, grooms also carry a suitcase which has clothes, shoes, earrings, makeup, underwear, veils and hijabs for Muslims, a watch and perfumes among other gifts. Photo by Shamim J. Nakawooya

In the past, parents in Buganda used to give gifts such as baskets, a knife, mats, firewood and clothing and these were meant to prepare the bride for the kitchen activities.
The Ssenga could openly tell the bride that a good wife must prepare or cook the best meals for the husband and other relatives, using the gifts she received from the parents. Parents used to offer a lamp in the past to provide light at night; nowadays some parents give out out solar panels which symbolise light in marriage.

Currently however, the gifts can reach huge proportions with wealthy parents offering electronics for the kitchen, a washing machine, a full set of furniture and so on. Of course this also signals how well-off the bride’s parents are.

Grooms can also take different pieces of furniture like cupboards for their in-laws. Photo by Shamim J. Nakawooya

The groom’s side
The groom takes bride price to the bride’s family. It is a sign of appreciation for accepting him into their family. It is also a way of thanking them for looking after his wife to be.
It also symbolises that he will be able to look after their daughter as it shows that he is hardworking.

Bride price is mandatory and what is brought is therefore determined by the parents to the bride.

Other gifts that can be brought include clothes (traditionally it used to be bark cloth), goats, cows, salt and food stuffs among others. Nowadays, grooms also carry a suitcase which has clothes, shoes, earrings, makeup, underwear, veils and hijabs for Muslims, a watch and perfumes among other gifts.
These symbolises what will be in the wife’s wardrobe.

Before the introduction ceremony, the groom’s parents could also pay a visit to the parents of their daughter in-law to be. They would go with gifts to the elders as a sign that they are ready to warmly receive their daughter in-law to be when she gets married to their son and also that the family she is getting married to is such a loving and responsible one.

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